System & Habit: Six Major deposits habits in relationship

20 Dec System & Habit: Six Major deposits habits in relationship

1. Understanding the individual 

It is one of the most important deposit you can make and it is the key to every other deposit 

Deposits:

Going for walk to talk things over

Going out for ice cream together 

Working on a common project 

2. Attending to the little things 

The little kindnesses and courtesies are so important. 

In relationships, the little things are the big things. 

It was very cold that night, so I took off my coat and gently arranged it over and around him.

3. Keeping commitments 

Keeping commitments- major deposit 

Breaking commitments- major withdrawal 

4. Clarifying expectations 

Make the expectations clear and explicit in the beginning. This takes a real investment of time and effort up front,  but it saves great amount of time and effort down the road. 

Clarifying expectations sometimes takes a great deal of courage. 

5. Showing personal integrity  

Integrity includes but goes beyond honesty.

Integrity is keeping promises and fulfilling expectations. 

You treat everyone by the same set of principles in the world 🌎 whether he is your office boy or he is your boss or he is your customer. As you do, people will come to trust you.

Integrity also mean avoiding any communication that is misleading and falseness 

Connect with Chetan Patel from Chetan Patel. World 🌎 for leadership integrity. 

6. Apologizing sincerely when you make a mistake. 

It takes great deal of character strength 

“If you are going to bow, bow low.”

People will forgive mistake, if you genuinely apologies.